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15 Signs You’re In Love With The Wrong Person
Sometimes, even the most perfect people are not right for you. If you’ve fallen in love with the wrong person too, here’s something that you will relate to. 1. You may love them with all your heart, do things no other person would do for anyone else, but they just don’t reciprocate. It feels completely one sided. 2. You cannot be yourself in front of them. You’re always pretending to be someone else fearing they won’t approve of who you really are. You don’t think they’d understand and worse, accept you the way you are. 3. Your partner is emotionally unavailable. They choose to be distant. There’s a lot you want to…
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8 Secrets Of Getting Over A Hurtful Breakup
When you’re suffering through a painful breakup, it’s hard to imagine that you’ll ever find another partner–much less, want one! There’s a cliche that it takes one week to get over each month of a relationship, but who has that much time to dwell on the past? These tips will help you with getting over a hurtful breakup in a hurry. 1. Accept the end Avoid second-guessing yourself once you end the relationship. Even if you did not end it, don’t start wondering what you did wrong. Relationships end for good reasons. One of you wasn’t happy or getting what you wanted. Accept that the relationship is over, and now, you…
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How to Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn’t Love You Back
Unrequited love can be a difficult experience for anyone. You may know logically that the other person doesn’t love you back, but you may not be able to instantly turn off your emotions. Obsessing over someone who doesn’t love you back isn’t healthy and certainly won’t magically cause that person to begin loving you. Learning to stop loving someone is a process that may take a while, but it is one that will help you to be a more satisfied, stronger person in the long run. STEP 1 Acknowledge how you are feeling within an appropriate time frame. Denying that you are hurt won’t help, but neither will remaining in…
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10 Signs it’s Time to Let Go
Holding on is being brave, but letting go and moving on is often what makes us stronger and happier. Here are ten signs it’s time to let go. 1. Someone expects you to be someone you’re not. Don’t change who you are for anyone else. It’s wiser to lose someone over being who you are, than to keep them by being someone you’re not. Because it’s easier to mend a broken heart, than it is to piece together a shattered identity. It’s easier to fill an empty space in your life where someone else used to be, than it is to fill the empty space inside yourself where YOU used…
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LETTING GO AND MOVING ON
After breaking up with someone you loved, even if you were the one who decided to end it and don’t feel rejected, you still feel a sense of loss, and you ache for the love you were getting that’s now gone. All these feelings have to work themselves out of your system. It’s a process you must go through, similar to grieving or getting over an addiction, and some researchers say that it can take up to half as long as the relationship lasted. However, just as there are ways to make the “In Love” feeling happen, there are ways to encourage the “Out Of Love” feeling as well. Here…
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To Forgive But Never to Forget And to Love Again
I am a firm believer of the spirit of forgiving and remembering – forgiving who has hurt me and remembering what has caused me pain. To be able to forgive truly is to go through the process of moving on and getting over what is done and what can never be taken back. Moving on is not about forgetting and burying all the pain but learning and getting wiser through it to avoid the same pavement that once caused me suffering and tears. If we truly want to forgive those who hurt us, why can’t the memory linger with us? When we love too much we tend to give too…
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Stop Hurting your happines
The road of life is rarely smooth. It’s easy to stumble and fall and hurt yourself. But these bumps and bruises are a necessary part of your growth – you fall down, you learn something, and then you brush yourself off and move forward. It takes no more time to see the good side of life and act upon it than it does to see the bad side and trip over it. If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your thinking. If you know you’re on the wrong track right now, take a deep breath. It’s OK. Sometimes you have to be wrong before…
