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One of the topics I like to post the most on Facebook is gratitude. It is about being grateful no matter how hard the situation is. There was once one of my followers wrote back to me, "You can say that because you're not in my situation. Wait until you're in the same situation as mine and you will not post something like that anymore." Another person also did sarcasm to me, "Yeah, say that to people in Ethiopia or those who suffer cancer." It's true. The harder the situation is, the harder we are to be grateful. But, does that...

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If it entertains you now but will actually hurt you someday, it’s a distraction. Don’t settle. Don’t exchange what you need in the long run for what you kinda want at the moment. Study your habits. Determine where your time goes. Delete the toxic distractions. Taking small steps can make a big difference, especially in tough times, but there’s no getting around the fact that taking these steps is often incredibly uncomfortable. That’s why so many people often don’t do it—at least not initially. But we have to catch ourselves and remind ourselves that just because it isn’t easy doesn’t...

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There's a time when you have no idea what happens in your life. Life doesn't go the way you plan. Problems come and you feel like giving up. You ask, "Why is this happening to me, God?" You want an answer so you know where you should go, but you just can't get it. You ask "Why?" because you don't understand the reason God puts you into the situation and where He will bring you from there. The truth is, you can't always understand God's works, but that's alright. You don't have to understand everything. All you need is to believe that...

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These days I was so confused. It's like I don't know which step I should take since I don't exactly know where the way leads me to. All I think is 'what if'. What if I take this way? Then I can't find what I will find if I go another way? In contrast, what if I take another way? I can't get what I will get if I go this way? Confusion is a word we have invented for an order which is not understood. –Henry Miller Well, confusion always makes everything confusing. It doesn't lead you anywhere, it just...

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Our character is often most evident at our highs and lows. Be humble at the mountaintops, be strong in the valleys, and be faithful in between.   Why are we feeling this way—so beaten up and worn down?   Why do we, who start out so passionate, courageous, worthy, and believing, become utterly bankrupt by the youthful age of 30, 40, or 50?   Why is it that one of us drowns in material consumption and debt, another self-mutilates, a third seeks oblivion in hard liquor and gambling, a fourth, in order to stifle fear and judgment, cynically tramples and...

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